Every weekend, I tutor a 10-year old Japanese boy. I wasn’t so sure what to discuss on the trial lesson so I decided to bring some picture cards that could aid me to get to know him and to identify his English level…
He got the picture with a boy watching TV and showed it to me.
Me: Do you love watching TV?
He was obviously taken aback by my question, then glanced at his dad as if trying to ask permission to speak.
Boy: Mmmmm…. I don’t watch TV.
Me: Oh… so how about movies, then?
He glanced again at his dad, this time, appeared to be scared.
Boy: I also don’t watch movies.
Me: Even Disney cartoons?
For the third time, he looked at his father and appeared to be even more frightened.
Boy: No.
I was already a bit embarrassed because I thought I was more childish than the boy! What else should I talk about when even “child-friendly” cartoons are taboos there.
Me: Ok… so what do you usually do for fun?
His eyes now appeared to be sparkling.
Boy: I read the encyclopedia!
Me: Wow that’s good!
At that moment I really didn’t know what else to say…
My childhood was completely different. When I was about 5 years old, our parents already gave us almost complete reign over the TV. Then at 8, I’d watched all the movies of Jacky Chan, Chuck Norris, and Cynthia Luster. I’d only laid my eyes on the encyclopedia when I had to research something.
Now…how else could I catch his attention?